Hey my loves! I've found some time in my day to recap another date...This one was real regular so I may be able to talk about a few in this post. In no particular order. I was hit up by a guy who we will call R. Nice looking guy seemed to be able to hold decent conversation per our messages online. He asked if we could exchange numbers and I agreed. Now this guy could really talk...like really really talk. He could technically hold a conversation all by himself. All he needed was an occasional sound, like mmhmm, Oh, or something of that nature. The first conversation however was really good. We talked about everything from past relationships to current events. We decided to meet up that weekend at a pizza place. First impressions were cool, he was really bright skinned... and taller than me which of course is always a plus in my book. He wasn't a bad looking guy. His in person conversation matched his phone conversation which was great. We hung out for like an hour I suppose and parted ways...nothing major. He did mention that he wanted to kiss me...my reply was of course..I have no idea where your lips have been! Me and kissing though...I have to like you or there has to be some major major chemistry. Needless to say there was NoPunanie4U at the end of the outing.
Now follow up for R was that we went out again, for breakfast I believe and your girl was super duper late! Like if I was him I would have gotten up and left...however he didn't. So to apologize for that I actually paid for our breakfast...That date was cool i guess I don't really remember anything memorable about it other than the fact that I paid lol! We ended up heading to Perimeter mall after breakfast to window shop. And that actually was the last time I hung out with him. I believe that I got super busy, and the next invitation that he extended was for me to come hang out with him at his home...well yea no...that wasn't going to happen. One date does not equal coming to hang out with you boo. At All! NoPunanie4U.
Lets go back to Jay, the tall guy that I was kinda digging. He was really topping the list. We had cool convo's he was just my type physically and he was just winning. Now after a couple of dates, he did ask me if he could cook me dinner and i obliged. We had fish, shrimp and a side that i can't rightfully remember. He had candles and the table set up really nicely. It was really really cute. There is nothing like being cooked for and catered to! So of course he just skyrocketed to first place. Now I bet you guys think that the whole "NoPunanie4U won't apply to this date huh? You'd be absolutely WRONG! Now I enjoy the whole let me cater to you baby, but my sugarbowl is precious...I can't just give her to anybody. So there was NoPunanie4U. However he did get an A for effort ;)
Jay and I hung out one other time actually, he asked to come over to my place to use WiFi. He came over, we talked and ended up disagreeing about something...What it was I have absolutely no clue! I do remember him telling me that I was spoiled and acting like a brat though. Which is quite possible. I give that disclaimer at the beginning of any interactions with others though. My mommy spoiled me and i don't like the word no. Period. We actually didn't talk for a few weeks i believe, and by the time he decided to hit me up again I was over it. Now don't get me wrong...when he pulled his disappearing act ya girl was hurt...starting questioning myself and everything. But I got back on track soon enough. One thing that came out of the situation that was good was I learned some key things about myself. When I like someone...I doubt me..I doubt that they will really like me the more they get to know me. And as a result of this I push them away either by my actions or my words. More on that later.
So both Jay and R ended up on the NoPunanie4U list. As they should have been.
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