So I'll probably do multiple posts a day until I get caught up with my present day situation...So keep in mind that I'm trying to remember the accurate details on on dates from what seems like forever ago. I'll do the best I can with what I've got!

WB 2nd Date:

Remember how I told ya'll he asked me for my favorite food? And I told him fried chicken...Well our 2nd date consisted of him doing some research to find the "A's" best fried chicken spot. Now, for the life of me right now I can not remember the name of this place that we went to! Clearly if it was the "Best" fried chicken I would remember though right? The food was expensive and bland. Now one thing my family and friends know about me is that I DO NOT LIKE TO SHARE. Not food, not candy, not clothes, absolutely nothing! But One of my "Be a Better Shay" items was to be nice. So I let WB taste my chicken. He made the comment which was HILARIOUS to me, that it tastes like chicken my mom would make. LMAO That was too funny to me. We had good conversation during dinner discussing future plans, more about our families, and just us in general. You know the usual "get to know you" convos After dinner we went to the movies. Now side note ladies...I didn't allow him to come pick me up from my home but I did meet him in a public place and rode with him to the restaurant. I figured there was absolutely no need in using up my gas, in Atlanta it's easy to use a whole tank of gas in 2 days...No sir! I wasn't having it. So I texted his drivers license number...yep i asked to see his id....and his tag number to my bestie just in case something happened to me. Again I don't know what movie we saw, but I think it was scary. I remember him grabbing my hand when I jumped. Nothing really extraordinary about movie dates. We held hands walking back to his truck and he asked if I was ready to go back to my vehicle. I thought about it and made the decision that I was going to just go with the flow so I told him no. Another thing I liked about WB was that he was able to make decisions and plans without hand holding or gentle pushing. That has always been attractive to me! Anywhoo, we ended up a club, downtown Atlanta. I believe the name of it was Sutra. I had been there before and it's a mostly black club with a few other races thrown in. So I was a bit nervous to be in a predominately black establishment with a Caucasian male. Remember this was new for your girl. So we walk in, and he checks my coat and asks me what I want to drink. I tell him and head to the rest room. Now as I'm walking to the restroom, of course I see lots of tall african american men that I would have NEVER seen had I been out with my girls or even by myself for that matter. One thing I have learned about the "A" is that the men here are short!!!! All I see are tiny men. *the struggle* But back to the subject at hand...while i'm checking them out they of course are checking me out. In my head i knew that this night would be quite interesting. When I make my way back to my date, he's on the dance floor by the dj booth waiting on me with my drink. Now hindsight...it wasn't smart to leave him while he got my drink. Who knows what he could have put in it...but God is good, because I'm sitting here writing this 2nd Blog entry. So I'm sipping on my drink doing my little side to side movement and he's doing his little side to side movement beside me. Now ya'll I'm a little tense, because I know he's about to try to dance with me and I'm concerned about how these black men are going to be looking at us. And what they are going to be thinking. Thankfully I can say that, that feeling didn't last long at all!! All I had to do was see a black guy walk in with a white girl and look like he was on cloud 9 to change my way of thinking. We danced and had a few more drinks. And I watched grown ass men roll their eyes at us, try to catch my eye when he wasn't looking, whisper to their friends about us, and other foolery that I couldn't believe I was witnessing. The DJ was even making comments. The mess was crazy to me!! Regardless of the foolishness I had a really good time. He showed me that he knew how to have fun. We left the club and he took me to my car.. We hugged and as I got in my car I smiled recapping our night. Though it was a good night, there was still NoPunanie4U!!