Ahh how I've missed my chronological attempt to tell you guys about my life...Your girl has had multiple things going on...that she cares not to discuss at this moment.
Now I left off with WB, but my dating was not restricted to just him. I was messaged by a guy named Jay...he seemed cool and was decent looking. He had a job...said he was over 6 ft and appeared normal. So I figured he was a good candidate to get to know better. I provided him my digits and he called me. We had a "as expected" conversation about the usual. You know the "Are you from here, How many kids do you have" stuff. He asked me out to dinner and I agreed. I let him choose the place and he chose Applebee's. Now I guess Applebee's is cool...and it's a bit bougie (you know stuck up) to say that I expected more...but I did. I can however understand the choice in Applebee's. This is a chick that you met online, you have no idea how she's going to look..so it's a safe choice. At the absolute least you can sit at the bar, have a drink and head home.
So I get to Applebee's and I'm nervous. I don't know what dude is going to look like, what our chemistry will be like, if he'll even be attracted to me or vice versa. I'm sweating, giving my self a pep talk, and enlisting my friends help for encouragement. I pull up to the place, call him and he says that he's standing by the door waiting for me. My heart was beating so loud that I was sure that anyone within 10 ft of me could hear it too. I walk towards the door and see a tall guy...brown skin, with a pretty white smile. Alright now...this might not be too bad after all are my thoughts. I finally reach him and he gives me a hug with a very pretty smile. Now I inside I was letting out a huge sigh of relief. The next step was conversation. We were seated and started talking. Now ya'll I honestly can't really tell you what we talked about other than where we were both from, the fact that he played ball in college (which was a huge plust), and that he had a daughter whose life he was actively involved in. Everything was real cool, real laidback, and I felt extremely comfortable with him. We ate, I believe I had a drink, but don't quote me on that, and had decent convo. And dude was quite attractive to me. I truly have a weakness for tall men who play/played basketball.
So we ended the night, he was headed out with some friends and I believe I was headed home to chill out. We hugged and parted ways and maybe 20 mins later he was texting me. Good sign! He was thinking about me, and I had just left his presence. Regardless though...there was NoPunanie4U.
The next day I think ya'll lol, I went to his 2nd job, as a barber, to go out to lunch. Of course he had me come into the shop, because he wasn't quite finished cutting a customers hair and I believe to show me off a bit. Dudes are funny that way. I was in there for like 20 mins...which he did receive a slight negative mark for. I don't like having to wait on folks. We headed out to lunch and as soon as I got in his vehicle he received another mark. He smoked. And it didn't smell like regular cigarette smoke. My response as soon as I got in was, "Oh, so you smoke?" He was like yea, I'm trying to stop though. Usually when people tell you that, they really aren't trying to stop, but they figure it sounds good. We get to our lunch destination, order and again precede to have pretty decent convo. We laughed, joked, and just had a good lunch. The chemistry was at a good level. Things were looking pretty good with Ol' Jay. He takes me back to my car. We hug and that was the end of my 2nd date with the tall guy. Cool date... I enjoyed his company..but it was still NoPunanie4U
He was giving WB a run for his money.
More on him later....
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